Anonymous said: "sh*male" is a transmisogynistic slur, and I'm not intersex or japanese but I doubt you should be using the word "futanari" either. please dont use those words anymore (or at least not "sh*male" bc I cant confirm whether or not futa is bad, but she*male is DEFINITELY a word you should absolutely not be using)
I know it is and I have discussed this at length with many trans friends of mine. While we agree it is a slur but only if it is used in a derogatory manner, used in terms of erotic material, blogs, websites etc. It’s like saying tits is a slur for breasts even further that breasts is a slur for mammary glands. Many trans men and women sex workers use the term because it is a widely searched term used in the industry. I applaud your fight to bring down trans-misogynistic slurs but your fight is futile and also backwards. By claiming a term is a slur when used in proper context, like pornography, when it is well acknowledged by many you are denying the work those people have done to fight that negativity and setting them back.
Futanari also applies to this as well.
I’m also going to do whatever I want, no matter what some grey face is going to say, you want me to respect your opinion don’t be anonymous.
Thanks for bringing this up though.
If anyone else has an opinion on this matter please bring it to my attention and try to change my mind. The poor argument of this person doesn’t mean my mind can be changed.